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Seperation Agreement was sent to me from my legal spouse, any advise on my best options?

16 Mar

I live in Houston, Tx with my mother and father for the past 8 months. He lives in Virginia Beach, Va because he is Active Duty in the Navy. We have a son together that’s a year old who he has never tried to be part of his life since he was born. I relocated to VA late Dec. 2008 after he returned from a deployment. Lasted 2 weeks up there before he choked me and threw me against the stair case. I packed up my few belongings and drove to Houston with my son in the car. He never sent us any type of support, he used credit cards we had together and never made payments on them. I have been fortunate that my family has helped me financially and I have continued my education to obtain my college degree. He has never taken intreast in our son but is asking for joint custody and ability to file him on his tax return odd number of years! Wants to begin paying child support in OCtober but the other 9 months are not even taken account for! I know this is not justice! A little more…within the same week I left him he paid a ticket to take his brother a 23 yearl old man to live with him in the townhouse who he then financed a car for and has not had a job since he moved there and this is his justification why he can’t provied for myself or our son. I have called his command, the obusman, file child support and nothing has gotten done. I recently changed my cell phone number so he would be able to contact me. He calls to insult me and say how ugly I am, that I let myself go because I’m not 110 but 130 in weight. Needless to say I just want this man to disappear because I have so much to achieve on my own and it’s coming together. However legally, attorneys in Houston know nothing about seperation agreements because TX doesn’t have that and the VA attorneys I had tried to contact have placed me on a consulting list for next week. Please, if you know of a great attorney I can consult with or have any time of advise feel free to respond and thank you so much for reading this.

 

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  1. Michael

    March 16, 2010 at 3:44 pm

    Well if you are in TX honey and they say that they do not have these “Separation Agreements” there, then I doubt it can be enforced if they do not enforce it for them which I doubt they would as they do not have them there, lol!! If I were you I would simply file for divorce and child support just as you wish from there, TX with the support order to include back support for the time up to current date. Unfortunately, there is likely nothing you can claim as far as his abuse of you as you should have reported it and had him arrested for assault and battery when it happened.

    Michael

     
  2. Salacious Crumb

    March 16, 2010 at 4:23 pm

    you are both Jenny and Jackie.

    weird.